{"id":3210,"date":"2016-05-12T14:36:46","date_gmt":"2016-05-12T14:36:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/?p=3210"},"modified":"2025-04-28T19:41:26","modified_gmt":"2025-04-28T19:41:26","slug":"how-living-in-bali-ruined-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/how-living-in-bali-ruined-me\/","title":{"rendered":"How living in Bali ruined me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"\" data-start=\"390\" data-end=\"450\">I know the title sounds a little dramatic \u00e2\u20ac\u201d but hear me out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"452\" data-end=\"731\">After living a year in Bali, we knew a change of scenery would do us good.<br data-start=\"526\" data-end=\"529\" \/>Word around the digital nomad grapevine was that Ecuador and Colombia were <em data-start=\"604\" data-end=\"609\">the<\/em> new hot spots \u00e2\u20ac\u201d perfect for remote workers like us.<br data-start=\"661\" data-end=\"664\" \/>So we crossed the globe in search of our next nomadic headquarters.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"733\" data-end=\"912\">We set foot in South America psyched up and convinced we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d find <em data-start=\"797\" data-end=\"806\">the one<\/em> \u00e2\u20ac\u201d that one town that would feel like home. The one boasting everything a digital nomad could ever dream of:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"914\" data-end=\"1103\">\n<li class=\"\" data-start=\"914\" data-end=\"931\">\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"916\" data-end=\"931\">Fast internet<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"\" data-start=\"932\" data-end=\"961\">\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"934\" data-end=\"961\">Affordable cost of living<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"\" data-start=\"962\" data-end=\"982\">\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"964\" data-end=\"982\">Moderate climate<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"\" data-start=\"983\" data-end=\"1005\">\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"985\" data-end=\"1005\">Easy visa policies<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"\" data-start=\"1006\" data-end=\"1036\">\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"1008\" data-end=\"1036\">A welcoming, friendly vibe<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"\" data-start=\"1037\" data-end=\"1061\">\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"1039\" data-end=\"1061\">Natural surroundings<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"\" data-start=\"1062\" data-end=\"1103\">\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"1064\" data-end=\"1103\">And, of course, a variety of great eats<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"1105\" data-end=\"1133\">Talk about high standards&#8230;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3214\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3214\" style=\"width: 780px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_9319.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3214 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_9319-780x520.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_9319\" width=\"780\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_9319-780x520.jpg 780w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_9319-320x213.jpg 320w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_9319-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_9319-990x660.jpg 990w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_9319-585x390.jpg 585w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_9319.jpg 1140w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 780px) 100vw, 780px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3214\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">stunning natural scenery<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"1140\" data-end=\"1355\">Once in South America, we couldn&#8217;t help but constantly compare every potential living spot to our old (and, let\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s be honest, romanticized) life in Bali.<br data-start=\"1292\" data-end=\"1295\" \/>Everywhere we looked, there was <em data-start=\"1327\" data-end=\"1338\">something<\/em> not quite right: too cold, too urban, too expensive, too loud, too remote &#8211; Too much this, not enough that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"1464\" data-end=\"1673\">We didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t realize it at the time, but the truth was staring us in the face:<br data-start=\"1539\" data-end=\"1542\" \/>We weren\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t just looking for a new home \u00e2\u20ac\u201d we were looking for a second <strong data-start=\"1612\" data-end=\"1620\">Bali<\/strong>.<br data-start=\"1621\" data-end=\"1624\" \/>More precisely, we were chasing another <strong data-start=\"1664\" data-end=\"1672\">Ubud<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3213\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3213\" style=\"width: 780px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_8545-Recovered.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3213 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_8545-Recovered-780x520.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8545-Recovered\" width=\"780\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_8545-Recovered-780x520.jpg 780w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_8545-Recovered-320x213.jpg 320w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_8545-Recovered-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_8545-Recovered-990x660.jpg 990w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_8545-Recovered-585x390.jpg 585w, https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_8545-Recovered.jpg 1140w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 780px) 100vw, 780px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3213\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">We loved this gem in Ecuador but&#8230; there was always a but.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"1680\" data-end=\"2029\">Now, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t get me wrong \u00e2\u20ac\u201d Ecuador and Colombia are absolutely stunning.<br data-start=\"1751\" data-end=\"1754\" \/>They boast mind-blowing natural diversity, incredibly friendly people, endless sunshine, good vibes, top-notch food, great internet, and amazing activities.<br data-start=\"1898\" data-end=\"1901\" \/>Still, no matter where we went, something didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t click. I usually find a great deal of places I&#8217;d love to live in during my travels. What was going on?<br data-start=\"1956\" data-end=\"1959\" \/>There was nothing wrong with these places.<br data-start=\"2001\" data-end=\"2004\" \/>They just&#8230;weren\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t Ubud.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3217\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3217\" style=\"width: 670px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_4222.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3217 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_4222-670x503.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_4222\" width=\"670\" height=\"503\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3217\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">searching for a home in Ecuador<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>It felt like we were going through a breakup \u00e2\u20ac\u201d still hung up on our ex-love.<br data-start=\"2107\" data-end=\"2110\" \/>Still thinking about her.<br \/>\nEvery new place we visited, we compared to her.<br data-start=\"2157\" data-end=\"2160\" \/>Everywhere, we secretly wished we were still with her.<br data-start=\"2214\" data-end=\"2217\" \/>The big question inevitably arose:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you push forward and find a new love, or do you go back to the one you never really got over?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"2360\" data-end=\"2606\">In any other situation, I would have said, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153push forward.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d Hands down.<br data-start=\"2438\" data-end=\"2441\" \/>But this wasn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t any other situation.<br data-start=\"2477\" data-end=\"2480\" \/>We didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t leave Bali because we were tired of the island.<br data-start=\"2529\" data-end=\"2532\" \/>We left for practical reasons.<br data-start=\"2562\" data-end=\"2565\" \/>You could say&#8230;we never really broke up.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"2608\" data-end=\"2685\">Bali was still in our heads, still in our hearts.<br data-start=\"2657\" data-end=\"2660\" \/><strong>We weren\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t done with her.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3215\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3215\" style=\"width: 670px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/P1050669.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3215 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/P1050669-670x445.jpg\" alt=\"P1050669\" width=\"670\" height=\"445\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3215\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">in Bali somewhere along the road<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"2692\" data-end=\"2818\">That\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s why \u00e2\u20ac\u201d after months of searching \u00e2\u20ac\u201d we decided to move back to Ubud.<br data-start=\"2765\" data-end=\"2768\" \/>Back to our old life&#8230; with a brand new addition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"2820\" data-end=\"3001\">Of course, everything\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s a little different now.<br data-start=\"2867\" data-end=\"2870\" \/>Our situation, our goals, and our expectations have evolved.<br data-start=\"2930\" data-end=\"2933\" \/>But somehow, it feels like we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve landed exactly where we need to be.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" data-start=\"3003\" data-end=\"3236\">Still, I can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t help but wonder:<br data-start=\"3034\" data-end=\"3037\" \/><strong data-start=\"3037\" data-end=\"3052\">Is this it?<\/strong><br data-start=\"3052\" data-end=\"3055\" \/>Has Bali set the bar so high that no other place will ever measure up?<br data-start=\"3125\" data-end=\"3128\" \/>Will I never be able to call another corner of the world &#8220;home&#8221; because I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve idealised this island too much?<\/p>\n<p>To be continued&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>The post &#8220;<a title=\"How living in Bali ruined me\" href=\"https:\/\/travelcake.site\/how-living-in-bali-ruined-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how living in Bali ruined me<\/a>&#8221; first appeared on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Travel Cake<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<h4><strong>Is there a place \u00c2\u00a0you can&#8217;t help but compare all the others too?\u00c2\u00a0<\/strong><\/h4>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know the title sounds a little dramatic \u00e2\u20ac\u201d but hear me out. After living a year in Bali, we knew a change of scenery would do us good.Word around the digital nomad grapevine was that Ecuador and Colombia were the new hot spots \u00e2\u20ac\u201d perfect for remote workers like us.So we crossed the globe [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3216,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"image","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[117],"tags":[5,63,82],"country":[203],"class_list":["post-3210","post","type-post","status-publish","format-image","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-indonesia","tag-asia","tag-bali","tag-personal","post_format-post-format-image","country-indonesia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3210","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3210"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3210\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4612,"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3210\/revisions\/4612"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3216"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3210"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3210"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3210"},{"taxonomy":"country","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.travelcake.net\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/country?post=3210"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}